Month: February 2014
where did the weekend go?
This weekend was incredibly busy, I didn’t feel like we really had a weekend at all. On Saturday we went to stay with my mother in law. She is in her late 80’s and settles in her chair in the morning and rarely leaves the chair but to go to the bathroom and sit at the table for her meals. There are 10 children and we have all been taking turns going and staying with her. We bring her meals and we visit with her. My husband takes his turn along with the other siblings, taking vacation days to bring her meals and see that she is okay.
We arrived at her house on Saturday morning, before 10 sometime and took our time putting the food away, and settling in for the day. My mother in law is always full of news when we visit. She is an Amish lady through and through. She knows almost nothing but just what goes on around her in her community and whatever she reads in The Budget. The Budget comes on Wednesdays and she can’t wait for the mail to go so she can read it. She devours every word. Her sister and husband came to visit her while we were there and they also spoke of The Budget and how they on purpose eat light and simple on Wednesday so there is less clean up so that when the mail goes they can settle right in and read The Budget. My husband’s aunt and her husband, my mother in law and most older Amish folks are typical in that The Budget is their news. They learn things they might not find out from other communities. My mother in law doesn’t care to get the daily newspaper, I always got the feeling from her that the news frightened her and she didn’t want to know what was going on in the world, she just wants to know about things going on inside the Amish community mostly.
I had to be somewhere else at 4 on Saturday afternoon and so my husband stopped off at his sister’s house while I went to my appointment and then later in the evening we joined two of his siblings and their spouses at a local Amish restaurant for dinner. After dinner we stopped by a nursing home to visit my old neighbor. He is in his late 80’s and had a stroke recently. He can’t talk, but he can do everything else, so he is receiving therapy to try and help him talk once more. It was good to see him and his wife, both were like a second set of parents to me and my brother when we were growing up.
Going to church this past Sunday has really gotten me to think about what is real and important in life. Two young ladies came and spoke at our church and they spoke of how they were held captive in their country, sentenced to be hanged for sharing their Christian faith with others. I won’t say much because I don’t want to jeopardize them in any way. What I got out of their testimonies was this absolute purpose they felt for their lives, and how their lives are not their own. I don’t think they have any dreams or goals for themselves, it is all about getting the word out and evangelizing. They spoke of persecution and how we need to prepare ourselves for a day when we might be persecuted. They warned we should always be ready. When we walked out of that service yesterday I was without words, I was rendered quiet, because there was so much going on inside of me. I can’t put it into words here, but my soul was stirred like it hasn’t been stirred in a long while.
Later in the afternoon, after some quiet time and also getting to take a nap, I awoke, refreshed and I called a new friend for me who I have gotten to know through my blog. We had such a lovely visit, I am so blessed to have been meeting so many wonderful folks through my blog and Facebook page. I feel overwhelmed with love and friendship by all of my readers. You are all so kind and lovely to me. Every last one of you are just such a blessing and gift to me.
Sunday evening found our children here and we had a nice taco dinner. It was simple, but it was fine because we were all together, sharing a meal and fellowship. I am simply overwhelmed at times with how much love I feel for both our children, their spouses, and our grandson. After the dishes were done my grandson asked me to come downstairs with him, he wanted to watch Curious George on the TV downstairs. He snuggled up close to me and we watched Curious George, then he would go find a couple toys to play with and I would do my stretches in between my grandson’s whims. It was just a nice evening all together. We said our good byes, our daughter and her little family are heading out on vacation on Friday and I doubt we will see them before they return home. I’m happy they are getting to spend some time away, however, that little grandson of ours grows like a weed and is stringing so many words together and I don’t like to miss a thing with him.
And to end this post on a crazy and random note, here are a few things that you don’t need to know, but I will tell you anyway.
1. I lost a wager at my 8-5, so I have to provide donuts for my coworkers. I purchased some donuts and apple fritters at my favorite bakery and I’m gonna fatten everyone up tomorrow!
2. If you were behind me this morning or this afternoon, driving to and from my 8-5, I apologize to you, you see, I’m not used to driving my husband junky old Chevy S-10…and it doesn’t have much power and so going up the hills left a lot to be desired, I know, and you were having a hard time following me, you nearly ran into my back end a couple times, all I can say is, “I’m sorry I was in front of you, no amount of pressing on the gas petal got me anywhere faster.” Sor-ree!
3. After doing some shopping tonight, I noticed when I drove in our driveway that a couple of cats were running and hiding under some shrubbery. They were not our cats, nor the neighbor’s Tommy who already has claimed the barn as his own. I think our barn is going to be overrun by cats if we don’t turn the heat lamp off. It seems to be a signal to cats to stop by and get nice and toasty. Oh and there is always plenty of food, so I’m sure the word is out that you can also fill up your empty tummy if you want to stop by.
I will leave you with a few pictures I shot from my mother in laws living room. They are out several different windows. The last picture is of her old chicken house. It sits there, empty and forlorn now, but I thought it was a good picture so I added it.
indecent t-shirts
Nearly every day I read an article on-line, or I see something on television, or in a restaurant or where ever I am at the moment that leaves me with a big old question mark on top of my head. (You know the kind? The ones that cartoon characters have on top of their heads inside a big old bubble?)
my friend, elizabeth – part two
02-18-2014
Mr. Wonderful called me this morning and asked me not to go in to my 8-5. When he left for work this morning he nearly didn’t make it out our driveway and when he looked in his “crystal ball of common sense” he could predict that he would be coming home to rescue me and my car out of a snow drift if he didn’t ask me to stay put.
We are blessed to not live right on top of a road, we have a little country lane off of the road, and it is placed in just the right direction for snow to drift over it if the wind blows just right and there is a certain amount of accumulation on the ground.
So, after clearing it with the fellow in charge at my 8-5 I set off to do some things around our little cottage. First things first, a load of laundry was started and a nice recipe of banana nut muffins were baked, I cleaned up the kitchen, placed another load of laundry in the washer and was like…so satisfied. The humming of the dishwasher, washer and dryer are whirring in tune with each other and it isn’t quite 8 o’clock in the morning! My, my, what one can accomplish when they have some time at home!
Housewives, I totally envy your right now.
A new bucket list item. I want to go here and experience this almost Pied Piper experience. How magical this looks to me.
I just love animals.
I can’t help myself.
Have you ever watched someone around you strive and wrestle with why things aren’t going how they want them to? Some folks talk and dream about their dreams all day long and I was one of those folks for a long while, but I found that if I live just for today, do what is needed today, and I live in God’s will for that day, is when I am most content and happy. A long, long time ago I was in a group of people and this one lady stood out to me, she wanted to preach, with all her heart and soul and liver and kidneys and the souls of her feet..you know the kind….she was struggling so hard because folks didn’t take her serious. But what she missed was that her dream was so much bigger than her reality. I wished she could see that maybe God’s will for her life was not what her dreams were. If she could have just seen that she has a ministry every day, right where she is, maybe if she could have understood that her dream might not be God’s will for her to do today, and if she could have lived right there in the day, in the moment, and be an inspiration, she could have likely made more of a difference in other’s lives than to strive and worry and concern herself and become depressed and in angst all day long. How this lady seemed to toil. Toiling and becoming depressed about what we cannot change or make happen does not lead us into contentment. Lysa TerKeurst is an inspiration to me. She had a wonderful thought on Facebook last night.
“Here’s an encouraging word for someone tonight – don’t think you’re not doing what God called you to do just because things don’t seem as glamorous as you thought they would be. If you are a woman who honors God right where you are, you are in ministry. Keep being obedient, keep looking for the next open door of opportunity, and above all else hold closely to our Lord.”
Amen!
Since I never get to take a nap during a weekday, I think I will go take a nap before tackling some things on my desk.
Ah, the luxury to be able to do so!
Live this day in God’s will and give your dreams and yourself a little bit of a rest today. Be blessed all!
my friend elizabeth – part one
my mr. wonderful
He has been at his company for almost 30 years. Come April 1 it will be his 30 year anniversary.
the beauty that surrounds me
answers to some questions about the amish
Recently I had asked folks over on my Facebook page if anyone had any questions regarding the Amish. I received several questions and will attempt to answer them in my own words and experience, but would love if others chimed in as we know some subjects might have various answers as not all Amish do things the same way. It depends on what type of Amish you are and which church district you live in as to how you do things.
I am interested in the practice of bundling. I know that not all Amish practice it..but some still do, altho it’s not commonly talked about, right? And you had put in one of your blogs that you and your now husband had done the bed courtship. Now..here is what I’m not clear about….what is the purpose of that? I always thought it was to test the couple’s self control..am I right or no? And I’ve read that with some bundling, there is a ‘board’ put between the couple..I can’t see that really being a barrier tho. Perhaps a blog on the subject might make it a bit clearer to me and to others who might be curious about this practice. And, no, it’s not a sadistic streak of mine to wonder..LOL..it’s just that although the practice has been spoken about in several of the Amish fiction books I’ve read, I am still not very clear on the subject. and just exactly what the purpose of it is.
Celery at Weddings
So nice of you to take the time to do this. I have two questions…1)what is the significance of celery at wedding in some Amish communities? Does it have a meaning? The NY Amish don’t do this (no celery can grow until autumn in the cold temps there.) But I know other Amish do.
My Answer
Old Order Amish are much more advanced than they were when I was growing up. Some of my friends now carry cell phones, but they have to watch to “not have too much on their phone” meaning texting capabilities, having too much data available, etc. Some are allowed to check the weather on their phone, others are not. It just depends on their district and what their specific Bishop will allow. Some districts only allow a business owner to have a cell phone, if you are a poor schmuck who works in a factory or are a farmer, then you are not really allowed to own a cell phone. It all depends on who your Bishop is and what he will allow.
What Bible do the Amish use?
I’m a newbie so I don’t know much about you. I have several questions but I will only ask a couple. On the spiritual aspect, is the Bible the Amish use similar to the King James Version only in their language?